tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4369778957554600348.post2302931346870600287..comments2018-12-18T09:31:13.685+00:00Comments on I MISS IRAQ: PlantingA&Eiraqihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06078837299745275740noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4369778957554600348.post-71265644219233338522007-07-17T20:24:00.000+01:002007-07-17T20:24:00.000+01:003mti I think you disagree with another point than ...3mti <BR/>I think you disagree with another point than th one I'm talking about.<BR/><BR/>You're absolutely right that life here is so difficult, people are brought up in small nuclear families, elderlies are demented and it's not easy to look after them, sometimes elderlies need special care which is not easy to be done by their children, and many other facts.<BR/>But that doesn't justify not contacting the parents for a week and I don't think it's hard to do so; one phone call doesn't cost like one can of beer or maybe not as much as a cigarret.<BR/><BR/>I know that many people live far away from their parents and they don't have to worry like us as they didn't face the terror we faced but it still not to much to see the parents from time to time.<BR/><BR/>People here are being brought up in a manner of ignorance to such things, they( and of course not everyoe) don't beilive that they have to payback what their parents did for them or probably they were not told that they have to do, the thing which I absolutely disagree with.<BR/><BR/>It's good that you mentioned Japan, it seems you know better than I about their family relationships, Japan is a great country and prbably more developed than the U.K, people work hard but they don't ignore the family things.<BR/><BR/>Sometimes; even in our contries, people are unable to look after their parents either they're not used to do so, don't know how to do it properly or they're quite busy, but, most of them either employ someone if they have money or put the load on the wife to do so or sometimes they have to put them in nursing home(which are not good at all compared to the ones in U.K), but they keep giving them some care, I'm not asking people to stop their lives if thier parents get sick, but I think all what elderly people need is empathy, a nice kind look or few words from the son can do alot, if people don't care about giving some emtions to the ones who spent their lives bringing them up, then they're just BAD.<BR/><BR/>RegardsA&Eiraqihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06078837299745275740noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4369778957554600348.post-82891103800272320842007-07-17T19:54:00.000+01:002007-07-17T19:54:00.000+01:00This comment has been removed by the author.3eeraqimedichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10365524866250384975noreply@blogger.com